You have said yes and the ring is on your finger...now what????
Take some time!
Take time to be excited as a couple and bask in the glow of the moment (and the shiny engagement ring). It is important that you and your fiance' share some couple's time. Talk about the future and the upcoming nuptials...but don't get bogged down in the tiny wedding planning details yet.
Tell people!
Protocol dictates that parents be told first and then the rest is up to the couple. Whether you decide to throw an engagement party, or be more subtle and see who notices your engagement ring on your newly manicured finger (that's the sneaky approach), let people know so they can share in the excitement and offer congratulations for this important step in your relationship.
Beware of wedding advice overload!
That being said...once the news is out, you are going to receive lots of advice! Some will be good, some will be bad and some will be downright crazy. The combination can result in a couple becoming overwhelmed. Take advice with good grace and realize it comes from those who care about you. Then, really start to focus on what you want as a couple. Consider your style, your timeline and the vision you have for the day.
Reality Check!
This is the time to consider how much you know about weddings, how much time you have to plan your wedding and what your resources are. Most brides find they do not have the time to plan their wedding day on their own. They also discover friends and family do not exactly understand what they want. After researching options, you may find a professional wedding planner offers not only an extra set of hands and an objective point of view, but can also save you money with their vendor connections.
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